ARC Review: What Kind of Girl by Alyssa B. Sheinmel

What Kind of Girl

Title: What Kind of Girl
Author: Alyssa B. Sheinmel
Pages: 384

Release Date: February 4 2020
Publisher: Sourcebooks Fire
Format: Hardcover

Genre: Realistic Fiction
Goodreads Rating:  3.94 (of 178 ratings)


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The girls at North Bay Academy are taking sides. It all started when Mike Parker’s girlfriend showed up with a bruise on her face. Or, more specifically, when she walked into the principal’s office and said Mike hit her. But the students have questions. Why did she go to the principal and not the police? Why did she stay so long if he was hurting her? Obviously, if it’s true, Mike should be expelled. But is it true?



Disclaimer: I received this ARC courtesy of Sourcebooks Fire through NetGalley. I am grateful for the opportunity to review an ARC for my readers, but this will not influence my final rating. All opinions expressed in this review are my own and based solely on the book. 

From a young age, I knew that “domestic abuse” was when a man hit his wife, and that it was wrong, and that no woman should ever tolerate that kind of behaviour. Dr. Phil was my main professor on the topic, bringing women on stage to tell them in no uncertain terms that it was not okay. It took much longer before I realized, “Oh, wait, women can abuse a man?” and even longer before I caught on to violence in LGBTQ+ couples and emotional abuse.

WHY? Um, simple. Unless you’re experiencing one of these situations first- or second-hand, no one is talking about them. Schools are not teaching students how to handle relationship abuse. Parents will drop the “treat my daughter well, haha!” line, but who believes their child is being battered/manipulated?

The fact that Sheinmel wonderfully illustrates in her novel is that we don’t expect teens to deal with relationship abuse. So we don’t prepare them for it.

I haven’t started talking about What Kind of Girl yet, but in a way, I am? This book has made relationship abuse—the survivor’s emotions, the relations’ feelings, the courses of action—accessible to teens. (Who enjoys reading What to Do if You’re in a Bad Relationship pamphlets?)

Mike Parker’s girlfriend, Maya, is a mess of emotions throughout the book. She struggles with self-identification after coming forwards to her school principal. Is she still “Mike Parker’s girlfriend”? Is she only “the girl who was abused” or “the girl who lied about abuse”? I have not experienced relationship abuse, but Maya’s thoughts gave me insight into some of the feelings a person may have during or after an abusive relationship. I hope some of that insight may help me help someone else one day.

Aside from Maya’s relationship, What Kind of Girl deals with bulimia, self-harm, self-medication, and self-image. Each topic was given its time to expand and be explored. The endings to each plot point could be called HEAs, as they are resolved quite timely, but I had no issue with this.



rating: An Aurora rating for a book that truly showed up with clean writing, sharp plot, and a strong message. While I loved the characters in this book (I mean, obviously not Mike), the message of this book resonated with me more than Maya and Junie.
main character with OCD and anxiety (mental illness)
content warnings: bulimia, self-harm, relationship violence, emotional manipulation, panic attack **some scenes may be triggering**
read this if you: want to learn more about relationship violence or get better insight into the thoughts of someone with bulimia/who self-harms **bearing in mind this is not own-voices**


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5 thoughts on “ARC Review: What Kind of Girl by Alyssa B. Sheinmel

  1. I struggled writing my review for this book, because one the best things for me was something I think would be a spoiler. When it kicked in and I had my a-ha moment, I sat back and appreciated what Sheinmel had done there.

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    1. Now I want to know what that moment is! Does it have to do with the way the chapters were formulated? Because I adore adore that. I was so confused at first, then wooooow, it absolutely tied into Sheinmel’s message.


      1. Part 1, I was like, “interesting”, but Part 2 was where I figured out what Sheinmel was doing, and part 3 brought it all into focus.


  2. Wow! I hadn’t heard of this book before but it sounds like it covers some really intense topics. One of the romance books I read last year ended up having a focus on a previous emotionally abusive relationship, and I was very happy to see that topic covered in what I expected to be a conventional romance. Since books are a really good way to spread understanding and empathy, I’m happy to see that so many more books are starting to talk about abuse and exposing how it can take on many forms. It’s so important!


  3. I loved this book. It was so powerful and I adored the way in which it was written. So clever!! I seriously need to read more of the authors books and am so excited for her upcoming release.


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